デーティング英語は “誠実さ” が最強。
目的は口説くことではなく、相手を尊重して会話を続けること。
このPathは、自然な雑談・質問・褒め方・断り方・境界線(boundaries)をセットにします。
最初の5分:安全な雑談テンプレ
How’s your day going?
What do you like to do on weekends?
Any good food spots you recommend?
So you’re into …, right?
What do you like to do on weekends?
Any good food spots you recommend?
So you’re into …, right?
“軽い褒め” の型(やりすぎない)
I like your style.
That’s a great laugh.
You have a calm vibe.
I like how you think.
相手を尊重する質問(深掘り)
What’s something you’re excited about lately?
What kind of work do you enjoy?
What are you looking for these days?
What does a good relationship look like to you?
What kind of work do you enjoy?
What are you looking for these days?
What does a good relationship look like to you?
境界線(Boundaries)を英語で言う
Soft I’d like to take it slow.
Clear I’m not comfortable with that.
Exit I’m going to head out now.
丁寧な断り(相手を傷つけない)
Thank you, but I don’t feel the connection.
You’re great, but I’m going to pass.
I enjoyed meeting you. Take care.
You’re great, but I’m going to pass.
I enjoyed meeting you. Take care.
Foundations 連動
毎日6分
- 雑談テンプレを2つ
- 深掘り質問を1つ
- 軽い褒めを1つ
- 境界線フレーズを1つ
今日の勝ち
“質問 → 要約確認” ができたら勝ち。
So you mean …, right?
So you mean …, right?
次に読む
チェック
- 相手を尊重する質問ができる
- 軽い褒めが自然に言える
- 境界線を丁寧に言える