Dating Vocabulary｜出会い・会話・礼儀・境界線の語彙（安全に強く）
恋愛英語のコアは“ロマン”より誤解を作らないこと。誘い方・断り方・距離感・合意（consent）を言語で守る。
Dating OS（最小）
① Friendly（感じよく） ② Clear（曖昧にしない） ③ Respectful（境界線） ④ Safe（無理しない）
① Friendly（感じよく） ② Clear（曖昧にしない） ③ Respectful（境界線） ④ Safe（無理しない）
自己紹介・最初の会話
核語彙（軽い・安全）
- What do you do? / What are you into?
- hobbies / interests / weekends
- favorite / recently / lately
- I’m originally from ___.
- I’ve been in ___ for ___ years.
“Where are you from?” は普通にOK。ただし深掘りしすぎない。
相手の話を広げる語彙（これが強い）
- What got you into that?
- How did that start?
- What do you like about it?
- That’s interesting—tell me more.
- What’s your favorite part?
会話は“質問の質”。単語数よりここ。
誘い方（pressureをかけない）
軽い誘い（最強）
- Would you want to grab coffee sometime?
- If you’re free, want to check out ___?
- No pressure—just thought it could be fun.
- Are you free this weekend?
- What day works for you?
- How about Saturday afternoon?
断り方（角を立てず、曖昧にしない）
やさしい断り（定番）
- Thanks—I’m flattered, but I’m going to pass.
- I had a nice time, but I didn’t feel the spark.
- I don’t think we’re a match, but I wish you the best.
日本語の「またね」は英語だと誤解を生みやすい。断るなら、短く明確に。
境界線（Boundaries）
核語彙
- boundaries / comfort zone / personal space
- I’m not comfortable with ___.
- I’d rather take it slow.
- Please don’t ___.
- Is this okay?
- Are you comfortable with this?
- We can stop anytime.
メッセージ（テキスト）の語彙
- How’s your day going?
- I saw ___ and thought of you.
- Want to hop on a quick call?
- I’ll be offline for a bit.
短文＋具体（場所/話題）＝強い。
誤解を減らす“超重要語彙”
| 日本語で言いがち | 英語で安全 | 理由 |
|---|---|---|
| 今度ね | Maybe another time. | 期待を上げない |
| 微妙 | I’m not sure it’s my thing. | 攻撃的に聞こえない |
| 悪いけど | I appreciate it, but… | 礼儀を先に置く |
| とりあえず | For now… / At the moment… | 時間軸を明確に |
Datingの“必殺10文”
- What are you into outside of work?
- What got you into that?
- Would you want to grab coffee sometime?
- No pressure—just thought it could be fun.
- What day works for you?
- I had a nice time—thanks for meeting up.
- I’d like to take it slow.
- I’m not comfortable with that.
- Thanks, but I’m going to pass.
- I wish you the best.
礼儀＋明確さ＝強さ。
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